belle de jour
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If I can stop one heart from breaking,I shall not live in vain.
If I can ease one life the aching,
Or cool one pain,
Or help one fainting robin
Unto his nest again,
I shall not live in vain.
- Emily Dickinson
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My 4-year-old mug can finally have its much deserved rest. Thanks for the new one, Engineer Iping! ♥
I close my eyes and I think of something romantic. Like the beach. #beachbaby
Someone told me three things yesterday:
1. I will go far and become successful because of my personality.
2. I am going to earn a lot because I know how to be one with my destiny; I am highly perceptive.
3. I am a nurturing person.
He even told me about the theory of “least effort”. Things will happen when you and your whole being are in peace and in sync with your dreams and decisions. And to b
e told this exact thing that I believe in only affirms that it was just right that I revised my prayer. Lord, You know this one. ;)
You see, when these things are told to you point-blank, you can’t help but believe them. Forthright. With sincerity. Then I realize, because I’ve been fervently praying for a response from Him, poking Him incessantly, asking Him unceasingly, He suddenly answers back in the most “me” fashion. He gives me a direct answer through another person. He knows signs and symbols won’t work on me. So He gave me words. Bull’s eye at that.
What an amazing day. :)
You see, when these things are told to you point-blank, you can’t help but believe them. Forthright. With sincerity. Then I realize, because I’ve been fervently praying for a response from Him, poking Him incessantly, asking Him unceasingly, He suddenly answers back in the most “me” fashion. He gives me a direct answer through another person. He knows signs and symbols won’t work on me. So He gave me words. Bull’s eye at that.
What an amazing day. :)
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"In any moment of decision, the best thing you can do is the right thing, the next best thing is the wrong thing, and the worst thing you can do is nothing."
The 5 Different stages of kissing.
- The “exploratory” kiss - Do start off with a soft, and dry, kiss on the lips; it will leave your partner yearning for more. This is called exploratory kissing, the lips meet and each person is wrapped in their own sensations. Does it feel good? Does it feel right? Is my body tingling? Do I want more? Do I want to stop? Allow each other to feel, to stop, and see if another kiss at another time will be well received. The chances of repeating this kiss are a lot greater than if it starts off with enough saliva to require a towel you know? Absolutely no tongue in this type of kiss. Just lips.
- The “romantic” kiss - This kiss comes after the exploratory kiss, it requires that lips be slightly parted and the kiss still be gentle enough to create trust but not forceful enough to create apprehension. Just enough to make your partner feel safe, protected but amazing at the same time. Not too much and too little. This brings out your romantic side, because they see that you just don’t want to kiss and get it over with. It shows you want to adore them, take it slow and enjoy.
- The “I want more” kiss - If he/she is doing exploratory kissing, take a little break and start with a more decisive kiss, the one that indicates that you want more. This kiss starts off as a exploratory kiss, but the lips are gently parted and your hand is around their head bringing your partner closer to you. If you are a man, this indicates territoriality and women respond to this kiss instinctively. Make her want more, but do not jump into full passion mode. It defeats the purpose of having them close, so take your time reading your partner’s reaction.
- The “I love you” kiss – This is the kiss that tell your partner and the world that you are a couple, it starts by looking into each others eyes, approaching each other until both faces are together, close your eyes and gently let your soft lips meet in a noiseless kiss. This is romantic and it is a perfectly good kiss that like a good wine has a hint of subtle references to more complex ingredients yet to be savored. Take advantage of this kiss, express your love all the time.
- The “Point of no return” kiss – See what his/her hands are doing, no one should kiss without touching. Touching is an integral part of a great kiss, yes, great, not good, not okay, but absolutely great, fantastic, out of this world explosive. Why? because touching increases intimacy and has the ability to eliminate the outside world noises and sights. Approach his/her lips gently, caress his/her face while drawing your partner towards you. Keep the gap between you as narrow as possible. Both of your bodies will do what comes naturally in this situation, which begins by getting closer to one another and creating additional sensations that only serve to enhance the intensity of the kiss. Where it goes from here is best left to the imagination, but typically involves intimate discoveries between partners. Embrace each other, love each other and have fun exploring. <3
bisous! :*
(via eternalmoment)
